When I left, I figured they were going to talk crap about me, but I guess I never thought that it might hurt them --specifically her. I didn't know who I was. The things I liked, disliked, what I was willing to tolerate. However, I knew I needed to completely distance myself from them, but that I was eventually going to come back and be friends again. Maybe she was right. That was selfish or "wrong." However, I don't see that it was wrong. I did what was best for me. I left trying to find myself. Whether they accept that is up to them,